“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” -Plato
Sometimes it can seem like everyone’s out to get you. There’s the
person in traffic who refuses to let you into his lane. The customer
service representative who rushes you off the phone without helping even
a little. The friend who didn’t tell you the whole story, which left
you feeling hurt.
We’ve all met these people. We’ve also
been these people. We all have days when we’re not as considerate,
helpful, or honest as we’d like to be. Sometimes it’s
because we’re rushed. Other times it’s because we’re tired and
irritable. And other times it’s because we’re hurting emotionally and
maybe we’ve yet to really acknowledge and deal with it. Maybe we don’t
think we can, and so we let it fester inside while we go through our
day, feeling hopeless, trapped, and alone in our sadness.
Today
if you come across someone who gets on your nerves, consider that maybe
underneath their rudeness or insensitivity is a pain that’s yet to be
healed. It doesn’t condone their actions, and it doesn’t mean you
shouldn’t stand up for yourself when necessary. But it may make it easier to feel a modicum of compassion. I don’t know
about you, but on days when I am hurting, that’s what I want and need: a
friendly face that says, “I understand, and I care.”
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